THE WEDDING DAY

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

Saturday, May 2nd, 2026

CEREMONY

3 PM

The Myriad Gardens - East Lower Lake

301 W Reno Ave, Oklahoma City, OK 73102

GUEST BREAK

4 PM

Guests are welcome to use this time to check into accommodations, explore the surrounding area, or rest while family photographs are taken.

COCKTAIL HOUR

5 PM

The Skirvin Hotel - The Venetian Room

One Park Ave, Oklahoma City, OK 73102

RECEPTION

6-10:30 PM

The Skirvin Hotel - The Venetian Room

One Park Ave, Oklahoma City, OK 73102

Accommodations

IMPORTANT TRAVEL NOTICE

Please note our wedding weekend coincides with the 2026 NBA Playoffs, and we anticipate the OKC Thunder will be participating. As a result, hotels in the area are likely to book up quickly. We highly recommend securing your accommodations as early as possible to ensure availability and the best rates. Room options may become limited, or even unavailable, as the wedding date approaches.

The Skirvin Hotel

In honor of our celebration, a block of rooms has been secured at The Skirvin Hotel in Oklahoma City, host to our Cocktail Hour and Reception. We invite you to book your stay at the discounted group rate provided through the link below.

The Sheraton

While we do not have a reserved room block at this location, it is conveniently situated near The Skirvin Hotel for an easy commute. Please use the link below to view current rates and availability.

Wyndham Grand Oklahoma City Downtown

Although we have not reserved a room block at this location, it is located just moments from The Skirvin Hotel, allowing for a quick and easy commute. Please use the link below to check rates and availability.

The First National Center

While we have not reserved a room block at this hotel, it is just a short walk from The Skirvin Hotel. Please use the link below to view current rates and availability.

The Hilton Garden Inn | Bricktown

This property offers an affordable alternative for guests who wish to save, while still enjoying close proximity to the festivities. Situated in Oklahoma City’s Bricktown district, it is a quick drive or rideshare to The Skirvin Hotel. Please use the link below to view rates.

Our Love Story

From the Lantern to I Do

In a world surrounded by online dating, Allie and Ryan were fortunate enough to meet the old-fashioned way—at a bar.

It all began on a hot summer evening in July of 2017, when Allie and her friend Jordan decided on a casual night out in downtown Naperville. A few stops later, they wandered into The Lantern, where Jordan spotted Ryan and made the introduction. Sparks flew almost instantly—even if Allie lost every round of darts that night. By the end of the evening, Ryan asked her on a date, and the rest, as they say, is history.

The early years of their relationship meant plenty of commuting between Chicago and Naperville. Long hours of traffic couldn’t keep them apart, and they made the most of every opportunity to be together. In 2020, Allie and Ryan moved into their first home—right as the pandemic began. Those months of lockdown became an unexpected test, but also a season that taught them to lean on God and on one another as they learned to navigate cohabitation, career changes, the loss of loved ones, and life’s unexpected challenges.

In 2021, Allie and Ryan became “fur parents” to two sweet rabbits, Koda and Kai. What began as a pair soon grew into a family of four with the additions of Josie and Franklin, much to Allie’s delight. By the summer of 2023, Ryan knew it was time to ask the question that had been on his heart for years.


On another hot summer evening in July of 2023, during a weekend getaway with friends at a lake house in Wisconsin, Ryan prepared for the perfect moment. As the sun dipped behind the trees, he set up an archway framed by glowing tiki torches, casting a golden light across the path. When Allie stepped outside—still sleepy from a car nap and wrapped in her oversized sweatshirt and slippers—she had no idea what awaited her. The world seemed to pause as she saw Ryan standing beneath the arch, his eyes filled with love and anticipation. Though she may have been caught off guard by the timing (and her outfit), the moment overflowed with joy, laughter, and happy tears as Ryan took her hands and dropped to one knee.

What happened next remains a blur—they both describe it as being swept away in “an overwhelming amount of love.” Ryan’s first clear memory was of Allie taking the ring box from his hands to admire the sparkle. Before she could slip the ring out herself, Ryan gently took the box, placed the ring on her finger, and asked, “So… is that a yes?” Overcome with emotion, Allie nodded through tears of joy and fell into his arms.

Now, after more than eight years together, Allie and Ryan look back with deep gratitude on the journey that has brought them here—the laughter, the challenges, the late-night drives, and the little family they’ve built. With hearts overflowing, they joyfully step into their next chapter—trusting in God’s grace and surrounded by the steadfast love and support of their cherished family and friends.


Each wedding guest has influenced us to be the people we are today. Thank you for your support throughout the years.

“I feel so blessed to have spent nearly all of my twenties with Ryan. Over the past eight years, we’ve grown and changed—through our careers, our walk with God, and our hopes for one another—and I’m so proud of how we’ve continued to love and embrace each new version of one another. I am beyond grateful for a partner who supports and loves me unconditionally, and I cannot wait to call him my husband!”
- Alexandria ("Allie") Byrum

"All my life I’ve wondered about what my happy ending would look like, and now I can’t imagine it being with anyone but Allie. I’m so blessed to have a partner that supports me in everything I do, and I look forward to spending the rest of my life with her. In the good times and the bad we’ve had each other to lean on. It’s a wonderful feeling to know that will never change.”
- Ryan Lauth

Our Registry

EXPLORE OKLAHOMA CITY

Coffee & Breakfast

The Harvey Bakery & Kitchen | $$
Waffle Champion | $$
Aurora | $$
The Bradford House | $$

Restaurants

The Mule | $$
The Hall's Pizza Kitchen | $$
Barrios Fine Mexican Dishes | $$
The Jones Assembly | $$
Stock & Bond | $$$

Cocktail Bars

The Vault | $$$
Later, Bye | $$
The Collective | $$
Bar Arbolada | $$

Frequently Asked Questions

Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

The ceremony will be held outdoors at the Myriad Gardens. The cocktail hour and reception will be hosted indoors at the Skirvin Hotel.

What is the appropriate wedding attire?

Think "black tie optional"—without the pressure.

Suggestions include:
For men, a suit or a dinner jacket with a tie and slacks.
For Ladies, a floor-length dress (midi/maxi dress), a formal dress, or an elegant pantsuit.
We appreciate you dressing to match the occasion!

Please note that portions of the event will be held on grass. If stilettos are part of your ensemble, just a heads-up—they might not play well with the lawn!

Are guests permitted to bring children or an additional guest?

Should your invitation be addressed to ‘Family’ or include ‘& Guest,’ you are most welcome to attend with your guest and/or children. Otherwise, we respectfully request that attendance be limited, as we wish to preserve the intimate nature of the occasion.

What conveyance is recommended for guests journeying from the airport to downtown Oklahoma City?

To our cherished guests traveling by air, we extend our heartfelt gratitude for making the journey to celebrate with us!

Guests arriving at Will Rogers World Airport (OKC) will find downtown Oklahoma City situated approximately 15–20 minutes from the airport by car. Transportation options include rideshare services such as Lyft and Uber, traditional taxi service, and rental cars. We encourage you to inquire with your hotel regarding the availability of private shuttle arrangements. For convenience and ease, we suggest utilizing rideshare services.

What is the recommended time of arrival for the wedding ceremony?

Guests are respectfully requested to arrive no later than thirty minutes prior to the commencement of the ceremony on Saturday, May 2nd, allowing sufficient time for assembly and seating.

For those intending to make use of the shuttle service from the Skirvin Hotel, further information regarding departure times and the designated pickup location will be provided closer to the date.

What is the recommended manner of travel for guests attending the Wedding Ceremony and Reception?

Shuttle transportation will be provided from The Skirvin Hotel to the Myriad Gardens. Further information, including departure times and the designated pickup location, will be communicated as the date approaches.

Should you prefer to walk or in the event that you are unable to utilize the shuttle service, the Myriad Gardens is conveniently within walking distance of most of the recommended accommodations listed on our website.

For those who wish to drive, we recommend parking at The Skirvin Hotel and making use of the shuttle service from that location. While parking is available in proximity to the Myriad Gardens, availability may be significantly limited due to a potential overlap with the 2026 NBA Playoffs, and certain nearby streets may be subject to closure. Accordingly, we advise allowing additional time for your journey.

When is it most appropriate for guests to arrive at the Cocktail Hour?

Following the ceremony, there will be a brief break before cocktail hour begins. We kindly ask that you allow the hotel staff a bit of time to prepare the space and refrain from arriving at the cocktail hour immediately following the ceremony. Thank you for your patience and understanding!

What is the policy on photography and cellular devices during the ceremony and reception?

We are delighted to celebrate our wedding day with you. To help us maintain a truly intimate atmosphere during the ceremony, we kindly request that all cell phones be kept tucked away and on silent. We look forward to a beautiful day surrounded by our closest family and friends. Thank you for your understanding and for helping us make this occasion truly special!

Is there a gift registry?

The honor of your presence at our wedding is the most treasured gift we could ever receive. However, for those who wish to graciously bestow a token of kindness, we have thoughtfully arranged a registry for your convenience, accessible through our wedding website. To locate the registry, kindly click on the three bars in the upper right-hand corner of the page and select ‘Registry.’

How may guests formally submit their response to the invitation?

A formal invitation, including RSVP instructions, will be sent in due course.